Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Kinky 1-0-1 for the Shy Yet Curious #Sex #Relationships

Want to spice up things in the bedroom, but you're not too sure about the word "kinky"? Here are some kinky ideas that won't freak you out and are sure to add some fun to your adult playtime. 
I'm Amber Lea Easton, aka The Temptress, and I'm here to have some fun. I hope you are, too. I'm a romantic suspense and contemporary romance author who enjoys pushing boundaries. Nothing turns me on more than making my readers squirm with tension from a suspenseful storyline or sensuous seduction scene. I may not write erotica per se, but I get the job done, baby! When I think of temptation, I automatically smile. The word alone makes me think of decadence, impulse, exploration, laughter, and boldness. On Tempt Me Tuesdays, I intend to delve into all of those elements of temptation with lighthearted glee! I enjoy comments on my blog posts, so please interact as often as possible. Let's have some fun together!

Kink 1-0-1
  • Get spanked. Play the naughty girl and be bent over your lover's knee. Let go of feeling silly and surrender to the idea. Be vocal. Challenge him to give it all he's got. 
  • Play with ice cubes. Sensations altering between hot and cold can heighten your overall sensitivity to touch. Now, don't make this painful. Experiment. Suck on the ice cube before going down on him, for instance. Ice your toys before playtime. Alternate between hot and cold.
  • Get tied up! Not too sure about the bondage thing? Start out slowly with being tied up and and simply let him have his way with you. Talk about it beforehand and know how far you're willing to go. Whip out a belt, a scarf, and go for it.
  • Put a mirror next to the bed. You don't need to be model-perfect (whatever that means to you) to enjoy the look of your body and to celebrate how sexy you are. By adding a mirror next to the bed, you achieve a voyeuristic feeling by watching how your bodies move during sex. 
  • Talk dirty. Don't be shy. Even saying something like "I love how you feel inside me" or "keep doing that, it feels good" can be seductive.
  • Let him watch you masturbate. Allowing him to watch you pleasure yourself gives him a road map to what turns you on. Not only that, but it allows you to explore the idea of exhibitionism within the safety of your own home. 
  • Have sex in your backyard. There's an excitement factor to having sex outside--even if you're guaranteed not to be seen. It's elemental, almost primal. 
  • Let him eat off of you. Cover your breasts in chocolate or whatever his favorite flavor is. Become a table for his feast. 
  • Role play. It's almost Halloween--bring the costume into the bedroom. Be that hot Viking chic who's enslaving him for the night or the wicked nurse who does home visits.
None of these are too "out there" so don't be afraid of the word kink. Between movies and novels that push the boundaries these days, it's easy to think of kink as being something dark or dangerous. It doesn't need to be that way. Sex--making love--is about you and your lover enjoying one another. If adding a few elements to break out of the humdrum will bring you closer and heighten your pleasure, then why not give it a try?
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