Forbidden Fruit Friday
Keep it spicy....Public Role Playing
I love this opening scene from When a Man Loves a Woman. The poor dude's face at the end is priceless.
The way I see it, public role playing is healthy for a relationship. It enhances the relationship on so many levels- discovery, connection and hell, it's exciting and fun. You get the fun part, but what do I mean about discovery and connection? Seeing your partner in another "role" than what you are used to them representing heightens the sexual connection and understanding to a level you may have not had before. Having your partner in a situation that allows them to play out their fantasies may reveal little nuances or traits that can get lost when you deal with everyday things like household chores, work, putting the kids to sleep or talking finances.
Think about it.
An elaborate, well- planned public role play, like the one in the movie, can definitely spice up date night. So forget going to Home Depot to pick up a plumbing replacement parts and then to the usual dinner spot. Take control of date night and get creative!
And from all of this, confidence is built- reducing inhibitions to bridge a deep connection with your partner, not just sexually, but emotionally.
Two ideas for public role playing:
*In both scenarios, having patrons or establishment staff within earshot of the unfolding conversation and witness to the playful displays of affection heightens the role play effect.
1). The Blind Date
Drive separately and meet at a crowded and popular place. Have one partner go to the spot much earlier than the other so the partner that arrives second has a chance to work on a breathtaking entrance.
Keep it casually at first, getting to know each other and gradually let the sexy talk and random display of affection begin. Spice it up by taking a private trip to the alley, back room or even, bathroom (LOL!) for a little make out session. The fun part in all of this is to set the verbal expectations of sex on this, your first blind date, before you leave the establishment. This will have both of you racing each other home...or even better, spring for a hotel for the night!
And if you had fun leading on the other patrons, they'll be in a bit of a shock when you leave and I can guaranty you and your partner will have a good laugh at the entire experience. Just make sure that you pick a place outside of your normal stopping grounds.
4). Escort for hire
Get a hotel room for the evening. Pick a place that has a hotel bar right in the lobby. As in the first scenario, have one partner planted at the bar well ahead of the other. When the partner arrives, have that mysterious conversation play out, something like this:
"Are you pleased with what you see?"
"I am very pleased. So you are still interested in what was discussed?"
"Yes. But again, I must warn you. No bruises."
"I understand. You know this is just for one night."
"And I must get home by midnight. No later."
"You know my name is not Dick?"
"And I am not Jane."
"Here's my room key. I'll be up in a minute. Surprise me."
Now, if you hinted to the bartender earlier that you were meeting someone, he has either broken some glasses by now or about to. And you see, no mention of cash was made. I am pretty sure you won't get the cops called on you two.
A Real FLESH FANTASY
Here's another role playing you can do in a club. This one comes courtsey of my book FLESH FANTASY. This does involve a group of friends, so this one will take planning.
The role playing has all to do with being a participant in a game called The Junk Trunk. Click on the photo below and enjoy of Free Read of Flesh Fantasy's opening and you'll quickly see how this can be a perfect role play:
About Maya DeLeina
Maya DeLeina is a multi-published Erotic Vampire Romance Author with Siren, Evernight and Ellora's Cave Publishing.
Her current series includes Ambrose Heights Vampires, My Naughty Vampire and Vampire Architects.
Born and raised on the Hawaiian island of Oahu, Maya could be seen at her favorite beach, Lanikai,
performing with an all-girl band where she played keyboards, guitar and
provided vocals, working as editor in her high school's yearbook and
volunteering her time at a humane society through UH of Manoa civic
In 2006, Maya relocated to
Colorado. Her crystal blue oceans, waterfalls and eighty degree
year-round weather were traded for four season weather, enchanting
forests and majestic mountains which led to her rekindled love for
In winter of 2010, she began
penning her first manuscript and by 2011, Flesh Fantasy was under
contract and released by Siren Publishing. To date, Maya has published
four novels- Flesh Fantasy, Veil of Seduction, Blood of Luna and Dark Companion, with another novel and a novella anticipated for release in September and December of 2014.
In 2014, she banded with other Colorado romance authors to form the group, Mile High Muses, in which Maya serves as "The Vamp". Catch her Forbidden Fruit Friday blog and guests she hosts on Sultry Saturdays.
only does Maya have theatrical book trailers that bring her vampires to
life, all of her vampires were featured in Singer/Songwriter Jill Cohn's music video "Blessing Moon".